Reconnect with the peace in your heart and rediscover the family you could only dream you had.
“I feel very strongly that I am under the influence of things or questions which were left incomplete and unanswered by my parents and distant ancestors. It often seems as if there is an impersonal karma within a family, which is passed on from parents to children. It has always seemed to me that I had to answer questions which fate had posed to my forefathers, and which had not yet been answered, or that I had to complete, or perhaps continue, things which previous ages had left unfinished. ” Carl Jung
There is a tendency to blame when conflict arises in organizations or families yet within both are natural common sense natural orders whose importance have long since been forgotten. Orders such as:
- Everyone belongs
- Balance in giving and receiving
- Respect for the Natural Orders
If these orders are violated, there is disruption and the system tries to adjust. The adjustment is always trying to bring back the excluded, the balance and the order. Understanding how this plays out in your life is like understanding how to paddle your canoe or kayak in the rapids and in calm waters.
So often people choose to run away from their families and adopt the “geographical cure” only to find that they run into people just like their troubled relatives in both their organizations, businesses or neighbourhoods. Their manager may have issues with alcoholism like their father. Their CEO may be as authoritarian as their mother. Their colleague may be continually whining about how hard done by they are as their siblings. They never seem to be seen or heard just as their viewpoints are also downplayed at the family dinner. These are systemic issues. They can originate in the family or in the business.
Yes family can be a source of great pain and yet without our family connections we have no foundation, no roots. The challenge is take the good from our families and find ways to transform yesterday’s woes. Identifying and resolving the underlying systemic issues can lead families and businesses to a much more productive and harmonious life.
Through our workshops and private services , we are enhancing lives, strengthening relationships, and guiding people through issues that may stem from generations past. The Systemic Constellations philosophy is unique in its understanding of the unconscious effects of the systems in which we live. By identifying and consciously working within those systems, we begin to see the patterns to which we have been unconsciously drawn to and entirely new way of living emerges as we acknowledge, accept and appreciate the past for contributing to who we are today. We are the dream that our ancestors have been patiently waiting to emerge.